Tuesday, September 1, 2020

We are still Stepford

 

It has been, as Grandma used to say, a dog's age since we updated anything to these pages. Times are different today than they were when we began our journal. We have not met since January of this year, we had a short luncheon to discuss our plans for the year, as we do each January. We set a date to meet again in March to discuss progress and tweak our agenda. The pandemic however, had other plans, and soon we were cut off from each other. As the months stretched out, one of our most vocal members kindly suggested we begin more regular updates. This idea was instantly echoed throughout the group. This might be a good way to remind us all of our purpose as members of the Stepford Wives Association. A renewal of our base tenets to support our men and families. We are now months into this ordeal, without a clear end in sight and adjusting and readjusting our lives to meet the needs. 

Many of our men began working from home when their businesses were shuttered, children began something called, "distance learning" and we were struggling. We have learned through this experience how blessed we were to have our men and children out of the home for several hours a day so that we could cook, clean and handle everything without anyone else around. Now, we're blessed differently in that we're here for a families and better able to meet their needs. 

Our men required that we wear masks almost from the start (long before communities began requiring them) and made sure we understood how to properly use them. We are convinced this advanced directive kept us and our families safe from infection. A few of our men have also determined our children will not be returning to school for the foreseeable future. Again we feel blessed that this is a viable option for us. We do believe our girls will benefit from more time at home and we can broaden their education to include more household duties. 

Our routines have altered but our commitment to our structure remains true. We at The (real) Stepford Wives Association strongly believe this will pass and we will emerge stronger because of it.